Why not?
Life 04/23/2004 |Abortion?: Needs to stay legal and safe — making it illegal won’t stop it, it’ll just make it unsafe.
Death Penalty?: I waffle. Most of the time, I’m anti-, though there are people (like Gary Ridgeway) that really make me question that stance.
Prostitution?: Legalize. Again, it’s not going to go away, might as well do what we can to make it safe for all parties involved.
Alcohol?: Not much of a drinker, myself — one or two drinks on the weekends when I go out. All things in moderation.
Marijuana?: If I could find one person who wanted me to sign a “legalize hemp” petition that even tried to convince me that they cared at all about hemp, I might sign it. Every one I’ve ever encountered, though, just wants to get stoned. Generally, I have less problems with pot than I do alcohol — I’ve never seen a violent stoner, but I’ve seen plenty of angry drunks — but on a personal level it bored me to tears every time I tried it (I got hungry, stupid, and sleepy, all of which I can do quite well on my own without paying $40 an eighth for the privilege), and I’ve seen people I care about do way too much, and contrary to pro-pot propaganda, yes, it does affect you beyond just the “high”. Growing up in Alaska’s very pot-friendly environment went a long way towards souring me towards the entire “pot culture”, and it’s one of the soapboxes I can get on very easily…
Other drugs?: Only ever tried pot, acid and shrooms. Pot bored me, acid was fun for about two years, shrooms gave me one very good, intense, introspective trip — and that was the last time I did any drugs. I can’t universally condemn drug use (the right drugs in the right situations can make for anything from a fun vacation to a good amount of soul searching), but on the whole, I really don’t recommend them (the right or wrong drugs at the wrong time can be a very, very bad situation).
Gay marriage?: Why do we even have to prepend “gay” to “marriage”? Two people love each other, let them do what they want, including marriage. This shouldn’t even be an issue.
Illegal immigrants?: Not an issue I really know enough about to make an intelligent argument one way or the other. Gut feeling is that the majority of them are just people doing their best to survive in the best environment possible who for one reason or another have difficulty navigating the labyrinthine beauracracy of the US Immigration Service.
Smoking?: A bad habit I need to quit.
Drunk driving?: No excuse. Should be an automatic, permanent revocation of the drivers license.
Cloning?: Very cool. Proceed with caution.
Racism?: Stupid.
Premarital sex?: Whenever I can.
More seriously, sexual compatibility is far too important of an issue in a relationship to leave to chance. Not only do I not have any problems with premarital sex, at times I think it should be required. Besides, I often question whether or not I ever will get married, and as I’d rather not go the celibate route…
Religion?: Investigate the ones that interest you. Never blindly accept. Question, listen to the answers you receive, learn, make your own judgments, and form your own ideas. I was lucky enough to grow up in a very open atmosphere where discussion and questioning were not only accepted, but encouraged. My base belief structure is very much based on the Christian faith (specifically, the Episcopal church) that I grew up in, but I’ve also found much in other religions that appeals to me, and have incorporated some of them into my personal belief structure. Lastly, and most importantly, realize that for everyone, their beliefs are their own — and they have no more right to impose their beliefs on you than you do to impose yours on them.
The war in Iraq?: Mind-bogglingly stupid.
Bush?: Also mind-bogglingly stupid. Actually, realistically, that’s probably very unfair. However, I agree with few to none of this man’s viewpoints, beliefs, or actions, I think he’s doing some terrible things to our country, and his apparent insistence on combining his religious viewpoints with governing the country deeply disturbs me.
Downloading music?: Generally something I only do when searching out rare tracks that cannot be found any other way. Whenever possible I will purchase the CD — directly from the artist if possible, through a store if necessary (the artists may not get much from their contracts with the studios, but they’ll get more than if I download the track).
The legal drinking age?: No major problems with it, though I wouldn’t mind if it were the same as the smoking, voting, and military service ages. Seems more than a little silly that at 18 you can cast your vote to influence the direction and leadership of the country or get sent overseas to be killed, and at 19 you can legally poison your body with tobacco, but you can’t down a beer until you’re 21.
Porn?: In general, no issues with it whatsoever. On a personal level…an occasional thing, but nothing that’s really ever interested me that much. I toss this quote out every so often, so you may have seen it here before, but when my dad was in the military, there was one serviceman who didn’t have the porn collection that most of the other soldiers did, and he generally wouldn’t go along on the trips out to the strip joints or (ahem) “massage parlors”. When asked why, his response was simply that, “I’m not particularly interested in sex — unless it’s specifically directed at me.”
Suicide?: I can’t understand it. Never have, and never will. No matter how low I get, how bad my life gets, or how depressed I get, I know that things will change. There are a lot of things in this world that I haven’t seen yet or haven’t done yet, and I don’t want to miss out on the chance to see or do a single one of them. Things are bad every so often, sure. But things are pretty damn good a lot of the time, too, and I simply cannot envision voluntarily giving all that up.
(via Mickey)
[See also: Nobody Likes a Quitter | Why gay marriage should not be legalized | Which religion? | Cheney suddenly supports gay marriage | Dean’s honesty ]
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April 23rd, 2004 at 7:14 am
Looks like you won’t run for a political office, you’re too honest.
Seriously, because of entries similar to this is one of the reasons I enjoy reading your blog. You are straight forward, do not make up any excuses, and say what you mean. In society today, there are those who want others to be held responsible for their actions, who live a double standard, and not practice what they preach.
Within the office I work I see too many times people who play office games. These people say one thing and turn around and do another. You look at society as whole and you encounter those politicians who are never straight forward about what they will do, or go back on the campaign promises. There then those individuals who say live life this way, then they get caught in some scandal involving them that is the opposite of what they say.
Of course, this does not mean that I always agree with you. But I am not going to yell and insult you over them because everyone is entitled to their views. We all should listen and respect what the other person feels. We may not agree and will disagree, but we should still respect what others have to say, another thing that appears to be lost in society.
Now that I’ve finsihed my little soapbox stand I think I will put it away. Its Friday, its payday, its time to get ready and enjoy the weekend.
April 23rd, 2004 at 9:56 am
So sad but true. I can’t think of a single politician on either side I really trust.
April 23rd, 2004 at 10:04 am
Many thanks.
Politics is definitely not in my future, that’s for sure! Of course, to quote an old cartoon, “anybody intelligent enough to run this country well is going to be too smart to get into politics in the first place.”
I wouldn’t expect you to, or anyone else. It’s the very next thing you said that’s the key: being able to listen to and respect the opposite viewpoint, something that happens all too rarely these days.
April 23rd, 2004 at 3:55 pm
You and I agree pretty much across the board, one reason I enjoy your posts and points-of-view. We diverge in the areas of recreational use of drugs (totally dependent on personal chemistry in my opinion and experience) and in the area of religion/faith (although I thoroughly believe in and practice most of Moses’ 10 Commandments and one-hundred-percent practice the Golden Rule, I absolutely and unequivocably believe in physics and evolution and cannot believe that any god would be as the various religions state - that said I do believe in Karma and would like to believe in The Force.
But, differences are where we shine as individuals and you shine brightly, that’s for sure. Keep on being independent and thinking for yourself. Great Post.
April 23rd, 2004 at 4:08 pm
Don’t forget that you only have to be 18 to buy a pack of smokes in a lot of states.
April 23rd, 2004 at 7:02 pm
Don’t beat around the bush, Michael…Tell us how you relly feel.
April 23rd, 2004 at 9:09 pm
Brad: Was just going to say that. Even in Washington, you only have to be 18. I bought a pack while I was up there. (Lord there are mad amounts of sin taxes on smokes up in Washington compared to even California!)
Michael: Do you consider cloning of animals and human cloning to be different or similar things?
April 23rd, 2004 at 10:09 pm
Euthanasia?
April 26th, 2004 at 9:53 am
Rob, D — sorry this took me a couple days. Wasn’t ignoring, just wanted to let them roll around in the back of my head for a bit.
Cloning, animals vs. humans: obviously, while there may be technological similarities, there are extra issued involved with the cloning of humans that need to be very seriously thought about. I have no problems at all with research into human cloning, as I think the possible medical benefits (growing replacement organs for people that are a perfect genetic match and not likely to be rejected by the body’s immune system, for example) are very worth it. Cloning a full human being, though — well, I don’t have nearly the gut-level revulsion to the idea that many people do, because I don’t believe that it’s possible to truly clone a person. We may someday be able to clone their body and create a physical duplicate, however, so much of what makes a person is dependent upon their surroundings, experiences, and everything that happens to them as they grow that I seriously doubt that we’d ever be able to clone their personality, and in the end, the resulting individual would be an entirely separate being: physically identical, but in no way a true “clone” of the source subject (at least, not in the popular concept of cloning). Of course, it’s definitely an area where science needs to tread very lightly.
Euthanasia (in regards to life support, which may not really be euthanasia, but I just woke up, and this is where my brain went first): should definitely be an option, and I fully intend on making out a “living will” when I get around to actually thinking about dealing with wills and such. I may not have any interest in suicide, but I don’t have any interest on being kept alive indefinitely as a vegetable either, should things get to that point. Besides, sometimes taking the step of unplugging the machines has unexpected results: my grandmother was deathly ill for quite a while, until it got to the point that Dad and his brother and sister had to make the incredibly tough decision to remove her from the machinery that was keeping her alive. Apparently she wasn’t ready to go yet, though, because not only did she not die, but she proceeded to recover to the point that a couple years later on a family visit, when we walked into her room at a nursing home she looked up, got a huge, beautiful grin on her face, got up out of her chair, walked across the room, and gave me a big hug.
Euthanasia (in regards to assisted suicide): I have more personal issues with this due to my strong personal aversion to suicide, but I don’t think it should be viewed as murder, as long as it is performed with the subjects full knowledge and acceptance. Helping someone to die when they are unaware of or unable to comprehend what you are doing, yes, that’s murder. However, if someone is faced with a debilitating, untreatable disease that is only going to make their life worse as they days go by, I believe that in the end, it is their life and they should have the option to end it if they wish. I may not agree with their choice in that matter, but I’m not going to interfere with their right to do what they want.
April 27th, 2004 at 9:51 am
Found the original of that survey, in case you’re curious:
http://www.bzoink.com/surveys.php?id=3013